You say that you’d see a therapist if only you had the time. But even if you had the time, just getting to a therapist’s office presents its own problems. Work, childcare, health issues, and other special circumstances often keep people from seeking the care they need. Left unaddressed, the impact of significant stressors—life transitions, parent-child […]

It’s self-study. Self-awareness is paying attention to yourself and learning what makes you tick. It’s looking in the mirror and seeing yourself clearly, without judgment or expectation. It’s a powerful tool. When you recognize what you’re doing, thinking, and experiencing at any moment, you get to decide how to respond. Do you want to continue […]

Self-compassion is powerful. It helps you recognize your own suffering as part of being human and gives you comfort during difficult times. As you tune into your own emotional needs, self-compassion encourages you to be vulnerable with yourself and others, which leads to deeper intimacy and more satisfying relationships. Unfortunately, self-compassion sometimes has the opposite […]

The gains you make in therapy, and the changes they inspire, may not be embraced by others in your life.  Read my GoodTherapy blog to learn how to deal with pushback and keep growing. If you’re interested in learning more about how to maintain your growth and set healthy boundaries even when your loved ones struggle […]